Thursday, February 3, 2011

Conformed or Reformed

Do you want to conform to society and do things that you see on TV or read about in the magazines? Are you easily influenced by people who are close to you, to do things you do not want to do? Webster defines conformed as "behaving to socially acceptable to conventions or standards." If you answered yes to the following questions and that definition defines you.....than you are one who conforms. If you're in this batch you just might be losing your IDENTITY, now would be the perfect time SCREAM lol. Okay, I am just kidding no need to scream just be patient I will help you fix this problem.


Start by breaking down your layers, that means breaking down the person that defines you. Ask this question to yourself, who am I? It may sound silly, but there are a lot of clueless people walking around. If your are clueless its because you let thing around you define you, start defining the things you are around. Begin first by taking a full evaluation of yourself and define your goals, dreams, and aspirations. After you have broken down the layers you will begin to know who you are and reflect your true image. Remember you can not change the past, but you do have the ability to change the future.

Reform is defined by Webster as "to put an end to by enforcing or introducing a better method or course of action."Reforming your life is changing for the better. Ask yourself what can I do today that will ultimately change my future? Meaning reshaping your belief system and rearranging everything around you. Once you figure that out make sure you take the necessary "ACTION" to make it happen. And when I say "ACTION" that means move ASAP. Don't wait you are not on a time schedule, just do it! Decide what you want to put an end to today and STOP doing it. Decide what you want to start doing instead and make it happen. :)



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2 comments:

  1. great advice!
    and i agree. this is one of the biggest problems of today: teenagers succumbing to society's standards of perfection.
    and it's AWFUL. (lol. i'm writing a report on it :) )
    great blog btw!

    -AA

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  2. I hope you got some great ideas for your report AA. I am glad you like my blog, I will check your blog out too.

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